Mutually abusive? What do you think?
Abusing someone because they supposedly abused you is
really not the way to seek resolution. It's like pouring salt on your wounds.
Move on. Get therapy. Geez, get a job for pete's sake.
Now, for the record, I have two jobs and a great therapist, so that topic is a waste of energy. I'd especially like to hear what you think about the word "supposedly".